tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6218313360696306951.post1364975398612511836..comments2023-12-06T23:11:19.362+08:00Comments on Musings of a Mualaf: BUKAN TAK ADA TAPI....aliyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11218183427774411196noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6218313360696306951.post-26383526519648795252010-02-20T22:07:13.399+08:002010-02-20T22:07:13.399+08:00Waalaikumussalam Rayhana,
Some Chinese don't r...Waalaikumussalam Rayhana,<br />Some Chinese don't really care about this anymore.In fact, a few I know would wait till their children are 'in the family way' to ensure that they'd get grandchildren within months, huhu.<br />As for nikah during pregnancy, well.. depends on which mazhab you're referring to. According to mazhab Syafie, it's allowed and the nikah is halal IF THE COUPLE TAUBAT NASUHA. Refer here for more information: http://www.zaharuddin.net/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=469&Itemid=95aliyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11218183427774411196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6218313360696306951.post-67100828695937809072010-02-20T01:14:32.079+08:002010-02-20T01:14:32.079+08:00Salaam sis,
I guess in the Chinese community, esp...Salaam sis,<br /><br />I guess in the Chinese community, especially the 'old fashioned' ones, they would marry the children off ASAP, so ppl would think they 'bunting pelamin.'<br /><br />However, if this is practised amongst the Muslim community, it is actually haram, kan? They would need to wait for the child to be born, before they are married..Rayhanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11159727543391565836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6218313360696306951.post-62479837430423399312010-02-19T14:30:41.832+08:002010-02-19T14:30:41.832+08:00Waalaikumussalam Ummi Auni Afif,
Bagus juga pering...Waalaikumussalam Ummi Auni Afif,<br />Bagus juga peringatan itu. Tapi macam pepatah Inggeris,'the heart is willing but the flesh is weak'... huhu,biasanya yang terkena itu kerana kehendak hawa nafsu lebih kuat mempengaruhi tindakan daripada ihsan dan rasa takut pada Allah pada ketika itu.aliyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11218183427774411196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6218313360696306951.post-76273306075069816102010-02-19T14:27:08.095+08:002010-02-19T14:27:08.095+08:00Waalaikumussalam olyyn,
Itulah bezanya antara mere...Waalaikumussalam olyyn,<br />Itulah bezanya antara mereka yang kaya[tak kira bangsa/agama apa] dengan yang tidak kaya. Sama ada cuba sembunyikan kandungan sehingga bersalin ataupun buangkan terus melalui abortion. Dua-dua dosa besar.<br />Kasihan pada bayi yang dibuang, terutama yang dijumpai mati. Kerana terdesak rahsia mungkin terbongkar, takut ditangkap polis dan malu dengan cacian masyarakat, bayi-bayi ditinggalkan begitu sahaja di tempat awam tanpa jaminan keselamatan sehingga mereka dijumpai.aliyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11218183427774411196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6218313360696306951.post-21981997021660834932010-02-18T09:05:55.572+08:002010-02-18T09:05:55.572+08:00assalamu`alaikum
bila dah terkwna, baru tahu renda...assalamu`alaikum<br />bila dah terkwna, baru tahu rendah tinggninya langit.<br />baru pagi tadi dengan kuliah ustaz fauzi, ada sahabat ajar anak saudara dia sebelum tidur sentiasa sebut "Allah memerhatikanku, Allah bersamaku."<br />kalaulah kita semua berfikiran sebegitu, nak buat itu terfikir Allah tahu, Allah ada.Ummu Aunihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18195707896347258604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6218313360696306951.post-56076825577087354642010-02-17T23:05:54.379+08:002010-02-17T23:05:54.379+08:00Assalamualaikum kak aliya
lagi satu sebab kenapa ...Assalamualaikum kak aliya<br /><br />lagi satu sebab kenapa melayu nie kecoh2 sgt pasal anak luar nikah nie ialah ianya berkaitan dgn status dara anak gadis 2. <br /><br />org cina agak kurang sensitif kalau isteri yg baru dinikahi 2 dah x dara, kak aliya. sbb dorang nie blom kawin pun dah biasa buat benda 2. ala.... nak test test dulu. aku dah buat ko pun pernah buat, so apa kecoh2.<br /><br />tengok cam kes teoh beng aper tah..... ala yg mati jauth bangunan kt selangor 2. kan tunang dier dah mengandung entah berapa bulan tp blom kawin2 laie.<br /><br />org india nie pun agak particular jugak bab dara nie. psl 2 dorang sanggup bunuh diri minum racun bila dah termengandung.<br /><br />melayu nie psl xder duit jer nak cuci kak aliya. masa sy belajar u dulu ada pun kawan2 yg buat benda2 nie. klu ada duit dorang wat jugak. klu anak org berada cepat dorang buang bila dah lekat 2. klu anak org kebanyakan....huhuhu sendiri mau ingat ler. psl 2 melayu nie banyak guna khidmat bidan kg yg x bertauliah. ramai jugak yg mati masa proses memcuci 2 kak aliya.<br /><br />tp biasa ler kan x sume yg berfikiran cam2.<br /><br />peaceUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13702333020994830585noreply@blogger.com